What we can do

My mother, who was very kind to me until I was 7, suddenly became horribly abusive. Punching and kicking were a daily occurrence. She would set me on fire, threaten me with a kitchen knife, and abuse me as if I were a piece of filth. I spent my days in fear and anxiety that one day my mother might kill me.

As I grew up and encountered and learned “How to balance your mind,” I was able to understand my mother and forgive her, whom I had hated so much.

Just as we were about to build a true family, my mother was told that she did not have much time left to live. In the limited time I had with my mother, I learned that my existence was irreplaceable to her by relishing the time I had with her. At that moment, I was able to experience a sense of fulfillment in life for the first time.

After the most unloving experience I have ever had, I am so grateful that I was able to have this experience with my mother and my children. I would even live this life over and over again if I could overcome even that tragic abuse and feel the love that is there.

Now the world I see has completely changed, everything is in order in front of me, and it has become a very pleasant and easy world to live in. I would like to make this experience my mission and share it with as many people as possible.

When I was a child, I grew up with parents who fought with each other on a daily basis. My father, who was an alcoholic, was verbally abusive and violent, and my mother was always working late. I felt like my mother was cold and did not help me.

Still, I wanted to make my family happy, so I tried my best to be useful to my parents. Despite my efforts, my parents divorced and my family fell apart. After that, I suffered from despair and a sense of helplessness that no matter how hard I tried, I would never be rewarded.

Even though I grew up and worked hard as a nurse, I continued to feel helpless when I saw patients suffering and dying and their grieving families.
Then, after the solitary death of my father, I spent the rest of my life struggling with self-denial.

However, after learning “How to balance your mind,” I understood that the feeling of helplessness was proof that I was sincere about the other person and that it was a feeling I felt because I had love in me for them.

After that, I was able to be OK with all my life up to now, and I was liberated.

As a result, my patients and their families appreciate me, my reputation at work has improved, my family relationships and my daughter’s truancy have improved, and I am now fully enjoying my life.

I have two children, and I couldn’t love my oldest daughter at all.

She used to cry a lot and a handful from the time she was born. She wasn’t fondly at all, just irritating me.

I didn’t know why I was getting so angry, and I thought that I was an unfit mother, and I was suffering alone without anyone to talk to.

However, one day I came across a new way of thinking called “How to balance your mind” and reevaluated how I was perceiving things. Then I understood what was frustrating me and why I was angry, and I realized that “I don’t love my children” was an illusion.

After these changes, my frustration mysteriously disappeared and I came to truly love my eldest daughter. I am also able to have smooth communication with my husband, with whom I used to have a poor relationship, and now we all spend our days together with laughter.

I grew up in a world of total denial from my parents. I was bullied, ignored, and lonely at school.
I became a nurse. I was also bullied and harassed at work, and I repeatedly changed jobs.

Eventually, I developed depressive symptoms and spent many days at home crying.

Thanks to my father’s kind words and support, I gradually recovered and was able to go outside. It was during this time that I came to know about this system.

I understood how the system worked:
Because I was blaming myself, people around me were denying me, and I was being bullied and harassed.

Right after that, I found a nice job, met my partner, got married at the age of around 40, and was blessed with two children.

Then I realized everything I had given up when I was depressed and withdrawn, including a new house and trusted friends.

Because of those difficult and painful experiences, I want to help people in the same situation, which is why I am doing this activity.

I grew up in a family of six, with my great-grandmother living next door who took very good care of me.

However, my relationship with my older sister was difficult and my mother constantly compared me to her and got upset with me.

As a result, questions arose to me, “Am I an unwanted child? Do I deserve to live?”

I was bullied at school and began self-harming when I was in the fifth grade after my great-grandmother passed away.

When I was in high school, my father died in an accident and I lost all my hope for life.

Even into adulthood, I continued to self-harm, but one day I came across “How to balance your mind” and understood why I had been self-harming.

As a result, my relationship with my sister improved dramatically and I was able to stop self-harming.

I found the meaning behind my birth, recognized my own value deeply, and now live my life with peace of mind and a sense of joy.

I have suffered from an eating disorder for 40 years.

For some reason, I had an intense fear of eating in public and gaining weight.

Therefore, I ate in hiding, took large amounts of laxatives, and repeatedly overeat and anorexically eat without being able to control myself.

I have always been swamped by a sense of lack and have spent my days in agony, as if I were in a tunnel with no way out.

Then I came across “How to balance your mind”. I understood that my mother’s words, “You are despicable,” had created my wrong belief that “eating is despicable. Furthermore, I was shocked to learn that as a child, I had perceived that I was unlovable and had created my life accordingly.

The “why? Cleared up. I found myself able to eat anything. My eating disorder was over.  I now enjoy eating and working as a bodywork professional.

My life was full of feelings of inadequacy, but what a difference! I now live a life of contentment and fulfillment.

I was brought up in a materially blessed environment. Ever since I can remember, my father had been having an affair. I closed my heart to the unnaturalness of my parents, who pretended to have an untroubled relationship in front of us.

I married my husband seeking a place where I could open my heart, but divorced him to escape from his impulsive behavior. When I met him again to take care of our son’s problems, his morally harassing behavior became even more serious.

However, after encountering a new way of thinking called “how to balance your mind,” why do people suddenly become impulsive in their words and actions, Once I understood this, my ex-husband’s morally harassing behavior stopped.

Once my relationship with him was restored, peaceful family conversations were established, and my son, who had been on leave, returned to work.

When I understood my morally abusive husband, who had disappointed her even to life, was actually the best partner I could ever have, I received a second marriage proposal from him.